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Cultivating Compassion in our Humanity

June 19, 20232 min read

When someone is going through something difficult, how do you respond? Have you ever wondered what the difference is between compassion and sympathy?

Both are beautiful expressions related to understanding and caring about the hardships of others. But compassion is the more powerful change agent. Here’s why…

Sympathy generally refers to feeling sorry for someone or sharing their feelings of distress or sadness. It involves acknowledging and recognizing another person's pain or difficulty and offering emotional support or comfort. Sympathy often arises from a sense of pity or sorrow for someone's situation without necessarily experiencing it firsthand. It can involve expressing condolences, offering kind words, or providing a listening ear.

Compassion, on the other hand, is the ability to see yourself in that situation if you were in the same circumstances and had the same life experiences. Would you be able to make different choices than the other person, if you had the same education, parents, life experiences, or socioeconomic position?

Compassion is seeing the shared humanity in the other person while knowing that you are made of the same stardust and life force. It involves recognizing another person's pain, connecting with their emotions, and actively engaging in acts of kindness and support. Compassion focuses on taking positive action to address the suffering, whether it's through offering assistance, providing resources, or advocating for change.

Sympathy can sometimes maintain a degree of emotional detachment, where one may feel sorry for the person experiencing hardship without deeply connecting with their experience. Compassion, however, seeks to foster a stronger emotional connection. It involves a sense of shared humanity, recognizing that suffering is a part of the human condition and that we all have the capacity to experience it.

Compassion aims to empower individuals by recognizing their strengths and potential, while sympathy can sometimes inadvertently reinforce feelings of helplessness or victimhood. Compassion seeks to uplift others, providing support that encourages self-esteem, resilience, and self-sufficiency.

It's important to note that compassion and sympathy have their place in our interactions and can complement each other in various situations. However, understanding the distinctions between them can help us cultivate a deeper sense of empathy and guide us toward more meaningful actions when we encounter others' hardships.

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Sharon Seaberg

Sharon is a mentor for self-actualizing women. She leads smart successful women to a deeper understanding of themselves. To create a life plan that inspires them. Breakthrough on what is holding them back. And live a life that lights up their mind, body, and soul. She spent three decades in the corporate world in the fast-paced, high-stress, high-tech industry before walking away from exhaustion and becoming a life coach. She is a wife and mom of 2 amazing girls. Today, Sharon is the founder and CEO of A New Way of Being You. Her passion is to empower women to be authentic leaders; to stop wearing ‘busyness’ as a badge of honor; to learn how to have unshakable confidence and use conscious communication when faced with difficult people, and to feel more alive every day.

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